Who Is Kumari? Meet Nepal’s Living Goddess and Only Living Deity

In the Kathmandu Valley, at the ancient temples where tales of gods and goddesses are heard, within a living tradition that breathes magic into the modern world, the tradition of Nepal’s living goddess, the Kumari, is found. Unlike the mythological deities found only in stories and scriptures, the Kumari is a real child from the Newar community who is worshipped as the actual physical incarnation of Taleju Bhawani, a powerful Hindu goddess.

It embodies a unique blend of Hindu and Buddhist spirituality that is truly Nepali. Most cultures worship deities through cult images or sacred images; Nepal goes a step further. Here, the goddess walks, breathes, and blesses in the form of a young girl.

To outsiders, it may sound like fantasy, but for the people of Nepal, Nepal’s living goddess is both divine and a deep-rooted part of their identity. She is not only a religious figure but a tangible treasure of the nation, a symbol of purity, and an anchor tracing the gods over time.

Beyond mere traditional bindings, the Kumari represents the living presence of Nepalese spiritual heartbeats. She is a goddess in the form of a child worshipped by kings, local inhabitants, and tourists alike.

History and Origins of the Kumari Tradition

Nepal’s living goddess dates back to the deep spiritual and cultural canvas of the Kathmandu Valley, which has roots several centuries ago. According to tradition, this custom first appeared in the 17th century during King Jay Prakash Malla’s reign, when religion, mythology, and monarchy were fully integrated into Nepalese society.

Legend has it that King Jay Prakash Malla would secretly play dice with Taleju Bhawani, the mighty goddess and royal protector. However, the queen saw them together one night and was enraged by the goddess.

After being discovered by the queen, the goddess Taleju vanished. Before her disappearance, the Taleju goddess had told the King that she would incarnate as a young girl of the Newari(Shakya) community of Ratnawali. Hearing these words, the King left the palace in search of a young girl who might be said to be possessed by the spirit of Taleju. So, the young girl’s worship began in the Kathmandu valley around the 17th century.

The Meaning Behind the Word Kumari

Kumari tradition goes back centuries and has profound roots in the spiritual soil of the Kathmandu Valley. The intriguing blend of memory and influence in Hinduism and Buddhism represents a distinct religious harmony found in Nepal. Kumari means “virgin girl” in Sanskrit, signifying purity and divinity. Kumari carries that heavy weight, referring to Nepal’s living goddess, because it has been said that this child, untouched by worldly impurity, can house the goddess herself.

It is firmly believed that the Kumari is not merely a metaphor but a sacred practice. The Kumari embodies the divine powers of Taleju, the nation’s protector goddess and spiritual guardian.

A Blend of Hindu and Buddhist Traditions

In the Kumari tradition, one can find an unusual blend of Hindu and Buddhist beliefs, which is rare in religious practice. While the goddess Taleju is Hindu, the Kumari is selected from the Buddhist Newar Shakya caste, which shows Nepal’s inclusiveness as a spiritual culture.

According to this concept, Nepal’s living goddess serves as a spiritual mediator to protect, heal, and bless the people and the monarchy. In the past, kings and political leaders sought Kumari’s blessings before making important decisions to show her reverence.

The First Royal Kumari of Kathmandu

While this tradition has ancient roots, the earliest documented Royal Kumari was Hira Maiya Shakya. She became the living goddess when Nepal was in modernization, and the more concerted acknowledgment of Kumari began.

Since then, many young girls have taken on the weight of the goddess’s mantle, each serving until she attains puberty or suffers a bleeding injury, both considered signs that the goddess Taleju has left her body.

A Legacy That Endures

Even after the decline of the monarchy and Nepal’s establishment of a federal democratic republic, the tradition of Nepal’s living goddess continues. She has established herself as a venerated figure, embodying the heritage, faith, and continuity of culture as a nation representative. Her essence and image must be present in the observance of almost every major festival and rite celebrated primarily in Kathmandu Durbar Square, where her holy residence, the Kumari Ghar, is located.

In this manner, the Kumari tradition goes beyond an ancient custom; it acts as a living bridge between Nepal’s past and the present, spirituality and identity, and myth and history.

The Kumari Selection Process

Selecting Nepal’s living goddess undergoes meticulous evaluation within centuries-old Nepalese cultural and spiritual traditions. Becoming a Kumari requires a specific child who is considered the perfect vessel for the goddess Taleju through her body and fulfills her spiritual standards.

Eligibility Criteria

• The girl should be part of the Newari community, specifically from the Shakya or Bajracharya caste.  
• She needs to be between the ages of 3 and 5 years.  
• Her health must be excellent, without scars or marks on her body.  
• The girl should not have experienced any blood loss, even from a tooth falling out.
• The girl should possess a calm, fearless temperament.

These attributes represent the most critical qualities in the Kumari because she is not only symbolic; she is believed to house the goddess and must, therefore, be perfect in form.

Battis Lakshana: The 32 Perfections of Nepal’s Living Goddess

Nepal’s living goddess, Kumari, is chosen through an extensive process that involves five senior Buddhist Bajracharya priests, a Chief Royal Priest, a Taleju Priest, and a royal astrologer.  The essential selection factors include being healthy, unmarked with uncut and smooth skin, pre-menstrual status, and having all teeth.

After a girl meets the fundamental criteria of the Kumari Goddess, she undergoes an additional assessment for “Battis Lakshan,” which refers to the 32 bodily perfections necessary to determine the next Kumari. Among the characteristics that make up Battis Lakshan are:

• Body like a Banyan Tree
• Eyelashes like a Cow
• Neck like a conch shell
• Chest like a lion
• Voice soft and clear as a duck
• Must possess the same astrological sign as the King
• Signs of Serenity and Fearlessness
• Black Straight Hair and Dark Eyes
• Delicate and soft hands and feet
• Thighs like those of a deer
• Small, moist tongue
• Sexual Organs are small and well-recessed

Spiritual and Psychological Tests

Once the physical criteria have been fulfilled, the child undergoes spiritual and emotional testing to ascertain her composure and fearlessness. This unique ceremony is held during Dashain’s Kalratri (9 Black Nights), the most significant festival. To complete her selection as Kumari, she must spend an entire night surrounded by the heads of 108 buffaloes and goats sacrificed to the goddess Kali. Heads are placed in a candle-lit, pitch-dark room along with a pack of masked individuals creating frightening sounds and secretly observing the girl to check for any sign of fear in her.

She must also look for the items of the former Kumari in that same room. If she succeeds in this challenge, she will be known as Nepal’s Living Goddess, Kumari. If she fails, a different girl will be selected to undergo the same challenge.

After selection, various pujas and rituals are performed. The Kumari is then taken to Kumari Ghar or Kumari Chhen.

Initiation and Coronation

When all evaluations are completed, the selected candidate will be taken to the Taleju Temple for sacred rituals that purify and formally welcome the goddess Taleju into her body; she then dresses in red robes and gold jewelry, is placed upon a throne, and becomes the Royal Kumari of Kathmandu.

It officially proclaims the commencement of her divine reign. She is shifted to the Kumari Ghar, her official residence, where every movement, appearance, and even silence is regarded as a message from the goddess herself.

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Life of the Royal Kumari After She Becomes the Living Deity

Since becoming Nepal’s living goddess, the Royal Kumari has been a young girl worshipped by thousands. Her life transforms overnight when she enters the Kumari Ghar, the sacred residence located in Kathmandu Durbar Square.

She is separated from her family, lives under the supervision of priests and attendants, and attends a private school while essentially keeping to herself. Her caretakers clad her beautifully in bright red and gold. She is adorned in a Jama down to the feet, red Bhoto, and red pagri, and ‘Agni Chakshu’ or ‘Fire eye’ is painted on her forehead. The ‘Fire Eye’ signifies her extraordinary power of perception.

Despite her young age, she participates in major religious festivals like Indra Jatra, where she is taken to a procession on a chariot. Her feet must never touch the ground, maintaining her divine purity.

She does not speak in public, and her expressions are interpreted by devotees seeking blessings or guidance. While she is revered and admired, her role demands silence, restraint, and complete composure.

Living Goddesses from Kathmandu, Bhaktapur, Lalitpur, and Nuwakot receive monthly government support and are worshiped as gods. Furthermore, they receive a small pension when they cease to be Living Deities.

Traditional Dress & Ornaments of a Kumari

The traditional attire of Nepal’s living goddess, the Kumari, is very much symbolically spiritual. Dressed in bright red, the color of power and purity, she reflects the divine feminine energy of Taleju, the goddess she is believed to embody.

Her attire includes a red robe richly embroidered with gold, covering her neck to her feet. Red symbolizes the Shakti (Power) divine force in Hinduism and Buddhism, establishing her holiness. Heavy gold jewelry accompanies the outfit: necklaces, bracelets, earrings, anklets, and waist chains. These were all chosen for their significance in the rituals and royal appearance.

Her hair has to be styled in a topknot with flowers. A tri-Netra, or third eye, is a critical component: the symbolic eye is painted on the forehead. This eye is believed to destroy all evil in this world.

She wears garlands of gold coins and diamonds and two symbolic necklaces. One is a golden chain in the form of the serpent god “Basuki Naga,” symbolizing the guardian of the national treasury in conjunction with Goddess Laxmi during Tihar. The other represents wrath and worship during this time, especially by farmers, because they suffer the highest incidences of snake venom injury. In Kumari Puja, nagas are worshipped to protect one’s assets.

The Kumari has another ornament, a long golden tayo. She wears it around her neck to identify her sovereignty over the eight mother goddesses. Another ornament is a red tika placed on her forehead. This ornament is the symbol of cosmic earth energy. This bright and glowing tika signifies property, health, and a bright future for the entire nation.

Inside the Kumari Ghar (Kumari House)

Kumari Ghar, a temple in Kathmandu Durbar Square, is the sacred home of Nepal’s living goddess. Constructed in 1757 by King Jaya Prakash Malla, it is an exceptional example of Newar architecture that combines holy meaning with detailed craftsmanship.

Architectural Layout

The house is built in the typical Newar residential style, which has the following features:

• The ground floor is called Chhidi
• The first floor is known as Maata
• The second floor is called Chwata, topped with a sloped roof

Each floor has a particular spiritual and residential role. On the second floor, we find “Sa Jhya.” The Kumari provides her daily darshan through this sacred window, and visitors momentarily glimpse her.

Kumari Chowk and Ritual Features

In the middle of the residence is Kumari Chowk, an open courtyard (bahal) where vital rituals occur. The center of the square contains a stone chaitya (stupa) with Pancha Buddhas in the middle. It is surrounded by two tantric Chakras, one of which is inscribed with the Kumari Yantra, a sacred geometric symbol utilized in the rituals.

Sacred Windows and Ornamentation

The northern face of Kumari Ghar boasts 22 exquisitely carved window forms, as given below:

• 11 Tiki Jhyas (Akhi Jhyas) that are eye-shaped wooden windows
• 3 Ga Jhyas, gold-plated windows above the main entrance
• 2 Chakla Jhyas
• 6 Sa Jhyas

The main Ga Jhya is considered exceptional, and only Kumari can see it.

The Throne Room

Kumari’s golden throne and a peacock-carved seat (aasan) are on the topmost floor. This is where she would sit at festivals like Indra Jatra and Dashain, during which crowds would turn up to worship the goddess and receive the tika and blessings from Nepal’s living goddess.

Life After the Reign Ends

In Nepal, it is said that Nepal’s living goddess, Kumari, stops being when she has her first menstruation or any injury that causes bleeding. These show that the goddess Taleju has departed from her body, concluding her time as a divine figure. The change, although returning her to ordinary life, does come across as an emotionally and socially trying period.

For the former Kumari, the future will be about adjusting again to the ordinary human world, surrounded by family and friends, and being in formal schooling for the first time. The transformation from divinity status to ordinary can be complex for a little girl, especially one who has lived in isolation in the Kumari house in Nepal.

People used to believe that marrying a Kumari would bring inauspicious events in one’s life, but such beliefs are fading away. Today, many ex-Kumaris have risen to higher studies, careers, and complete lives as witnesses to the legacy of Nepal’s living goddess, which still survives beyond her reign.

Recent changes have initiated educational support, mental health assistance, and public outreach to help the former Kumaris re-socialize. Although no longer worshipped, she will carry with her the honor and identity for life of being part of Nepal’s living goddess tradition.

List of Kumaris in Nepal: Former and Current

Royal Kumaris in Kathmandu

Kumari in Patan

Kumari in Bungamati

Conclusion: A Sacred Legacy That Lives On

The cultural tradition of the Kumari in Nepal extends beyond being a historical practice since she manifests as the sacred embodiment of national spiritual identity. At a young age, the traditional selection process makes the Kumari a sacred symbol representing purity, divine power, and traditional links between deities and people.

During sacred days, her presence, visible through the intrinsically carved windows of the Kumari Ghar, holds captive the minds of devotees and travelers. Despite many changes in the modern world, the tradition of Kumari remains an essential part of our heritage, and we revere it.

Even after her divine reign ends, the Kumari’s legacy is passed down through these living deities and will continue. This story tells us that the divine in Nepal is not remembered, but it walks among the people.

FAQs About Nepal’s Living Goddess Kumari

1. Why can’t normal girls be Kumari?

Normal girls cannot be Kumari since this position adheres to strict traditional norms. To be Kumari, one must be of the Newar Shakya caste, have 32 physical perfections, exhibit courage, have specific astrological signs, etc. These sacred qualification requirements have been there for centuries based on religio-cultural beliefs.

2. Where does the Kumari live?

She stays in the Kumari Ghar, a sacred house in Kathmandu Durbar Square.

3. How is the Kumari chosen?

Selecting Kumaris is a rather strict affair governed by Hindu and Buddhist priests. Candidates must belong to the Newari caste, possess the 32 perfections, have a bold character, and undergo astrological- and spiritual-related tests. The final candidate is regarded as the living goddess Taleju.

4. At what age is Kumari selected?

Kumaris are generally selected between the ages of three and five. This age is ideal because the child is said to have physical purity, spiritual innocence, and emotional calmness, all essential requisites for being Nepal’s living goddess.

5. How long does a Kumari serve?

The status of being a Kumari ends when a goddess experiences her first menstrual cycle or when any injury within her body results in bleeding, since bleeding indicates the goddess has left her body.

6. Can visitors see the Kumari?

Yes! Visitors can see the Kumari in a daily short darshan at the Kumari Ghar from the Sa Jhya window; other occasions are when special public festivals like Indra Jatra are celebrated.

7. Does the Kumari receive an education?

Yes, the Kumaris are now being tutored privately, and their education is being taken care of. They also sit for their national examinations while residing in the Kumari Ghar. Continued access to books, the Internet, and other educational aids ensures she continues learning during her reign.

8. What happens after her reign?

After the end of her reign, she returns to everyday life, rejoining her family and starting or continuing formal education. Moreover, she receives assistance to aid her reintegration socially and emotionally.

9. Is Kumari Pratha violating child rights?

No, Kumari Pratha is not a violation of child rights. Although the practice has been scrutinized, reforms have made education, health care, and emotional support available to the Kumari, and the practice is allowed to continue as long as the dignity and welfare of the child are upheld.

10. Why is the Kumari tradition important?

The Kumari tradition is critical as it’s considered the nation’s soul. The Kumari is a spiritual path working on the nexus of Hindu and Buddhist principles and values. She symbolizes purity, divine power, and national identity, and is considered an excellence during major cultural and religious festivities.

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